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These resources can help you talk to someone, find local support, search for treatment, or understand what you're feeling.

Mental Health & Therapy

ADAA Online Support Communities

Connect with people who understand

Free, anonymous, moderated peer communities for people affected by anxiety, depression, PTSD and related mental health concerns.

Peer Support
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Grief & Trauma Support

Alliance of Hope for Suicide Loss Survivors

Connect after a suicide loss

A free, moderated online community and grief resources for people who have lost someone to suicide.

Suicide Loss
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Grief & Trauma Support

Dougy Center: Grief Resources and Program Finder

Grief resources, guidance, and help finding support.

Explore free grief resources and search for support programs that may be available near you. Find articles, activities, and guidance for grieving children, teens, young adults, families, and caregivers.

Children & Teens
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Mental Health & Therapy

Give an Hour - Peer Support Groups

Free virtual peer support built around shared experiences.

Join free virtual groups where people with similar life experiences connect, share encouragement, and support one another through difficult circumstances.

Peer Support
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Community & Identity Based Support

Inclusive Therapists

Search for an affirming therapist

An identity aware therapist directory and matching service focused on culturally responsive and affirming care.

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Community & Identity Based Support

LGBT National Help Center

Talk with an LGBTQIA+ peer

Free, confidential LGBTQIA+ peer support, information and community resource navigation by hotline and online chat.

LGBTQ+ Peer Support
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Grief & Trauma Support

MISS Foundation

Find support after the death of a child

Free moderated online grief forums and additional support for families experiencing the death of a child.

Loss of a Child
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Safety & Domestic Violence

National Domestic Violence Hotline

Talk with a domestic violence advocate

Free, confidential 24/7 support, safety planning and local resource navigation for people affected by relationship abuse.

Domestic Violence
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Safety & Domestic Violence

National Human Trafficking Hotline

Get help with a trafficking situation

Confidential 24/7 support and nationwide service referrals for people affected by sex or labor trafficking.

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Mental Health & Therapy

National Maternal Mental Health Hotline

Talk with someone about maternal mental health

Free, confidential 24/7 mental health support and resource navigation during pregnancy, after birth and throughout the maternal mental health period.

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Safety & Domestic Violence

National Runaway Safeline

Talk through your options with someone who will listen

Free 24/7 support, safety planning and resource referrals for young people dealing with running away, homelessness, family conflict or other crises.

Runaway & Youth Safety
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Community & Identity Based Support

NQTTCN Mental Health Directory

Find a queer or trans therapist of color

A national directory for finding queer and trans therapists of color and other QTBIPOC mental health practitioners.

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Safety & Domestic Violence

RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline

Talk with a trained sexual assault support specialist

Free, confidential 24/7 support for people affected by sexual assault, with information and local referrals.

Sexual Assault
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Mental Health & Therapy

SAMHSA National Helpline

Get help finding mental health or substance use treatment

Free 24/7 information and treatment referral help for mental health and substance use concerns.

Helpline Support
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Grief & Trauma Support

TAPS

Find support after a military connected death

Free grief support, peer connection and navigation for people affected by the death of a military connected loved one.

Military Loss
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Grief & Trauma Support

The Compassionate Friends

Grief support from people who have experienced a similar loss.

Connect with others who understand the grief of losing a child, sibling, or grandchild. Find free local support groups, scheduled online conversations, and resources created for bereaved families.

Loss of a Child
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Community & Identity Based Support

The Trevor Project

Free, confidential crisis support for LGBTQ+ young people, anytime.

Connect with a trained crisis counselor who understands the challenges LGBTQ+ young people may face. Get free support by phone, text, or online chat, whether you are in crisis or need someone to talk to.

LGBTQ+ Youth Crisis Support
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Mental Health & Therapy

NAMI HelpLine

Mental-health support, information, and help finding resources.

Talk with a HelpLine specialist who can offer emotional support, answer mental-health questions, and help you identify resources for yourself or someone you care about.

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Not Sure Where to Start?

If you're unsure what kind of support you're looking for, these tools can help you explore what you're experiencing and better understand the language around it.

Mental Health America Screening

Start with a mental health self check

Mental Health America is a national nonprofit mental health organization. Its MHA Screening program provides online self screening tools and follow up information intended to help people identify possible concerns and consider next steps.

Understanding the Terms

A plain language glossary of conditions, experiences, and behaviors.

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Acute Stress Disorder

A mental health condition that can develop soon after a traumatic event. Someone may experience nightmares, unwanted memories, fear, avoidance, or a sense of being disconnected from themselves or their surroundings.

Worth Understanding

Symptoms occur from three days to one month after the event and cause significant distress or problems in everyday life. Acute Stress Disorder doesn't always lead to PTSD.

Addiction

A condition where someone feels driven to keep using a substance even when it's causing harm, and finds it difficult to cut back or stop. It can affect health, relationships, decisions, and daily life.

Worth Understanding

Addiction isn't simply a lack of willpower. It's also different from physical dependence, which can develop while taking certain medications as prescribed. Treatment and recovery support are available.

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

A developmental condition that can affect attention, activity levels, impulse control, planning, and organization. These differences may make everyday tasks harder to manage.

Worth Understanding

ADHD doesn't always involve visible hyperactivity. Some people mainly struggle with attention, time management, or organization. ADHD can continue into adulthood and look different from person to person.

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

A developmental condition involving differences in communication, social interaction, behavior, and interests. Autistic people may also experience sounds, lights, textures, or other sensory information differently.

Worth Understanding

Autism isn't a disease or one specific set of behaviors. Someone can speak fluently, work, or enjoy socializing and still be autistic. Strengths, experiences, and support needs vary from person to person.

Bipolar Disorder

A mental health condition involving episodes of unusually high or irritable mood and increased energy, called mania or hypomania. Episodes of depression are also common. These changes can affect sleep, judgment, relationships, and daily life.

Worth Understanding

Bipolar disorder isn't the same as having ordinary mood swings. Episodes usually last days or longer. Bipolar I and Bipolar II are different diagnoses with different requirements.

Bipolar I Disorder (BP1)

A type of bipolar disorder involving at least one manic episode. During mania, someone's mood, energy, activity, or judgment changes significantly and may seriously disrupt their life. Depression is common but isn't required for the diagnosis.

Worth Understanding

Mania isn't simply feeling happy or energetic. It can involve needing much less sleep, impulsive decisions, and sometimes hospitalization. Bipolar I and Bipolar II are different conditions, not a ranking of whose struggles are more serious.

Bipolar II Disorder (BP2)

A type of bipolar disorder involving episodes of major depression and hypomania. Hypomania brings unusually high or irritable mood and extra energy, but is less severe than the full mania seen in Bipolar I.

Worth Understanding

Bipolar II isn't simply a mild version of Bipolar I. Depressive episodes can be severe, and hypomania may go unnoticed because someone feels unusually productive or energetic. A full manic episode rules out Bipolar II.

Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)

A mental health condition where someone becomes deeply distressed about parts of their appearance that may seem minor or unnoticeable to others. They may repeatedly check mirrors, compare their appearance, or avoid social situations.

Worth Understanding

BDD isn't simply vanity or being unhappy with how you look. The distress can seriously affect everyday life, relationships, and work. Effective treatments are available.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

A mental health condition that can make emotions feel intense and difficult to manage. It may affect how someone sees themselves, handles relationships, or responds to fears of being abandoned.

Worth Understanding

BPD isn't the same as bipolar disorder. Bipolar disorder involves distinct episodes of mania or hypomania, while BPD involves different patterns of emotional and relationship difficulties. Treatment can help people manage symptoms.

Coercive Control

A pattern of behavior that takes away someone's independence or freedom. It might involve monitoring their phone, isolating them from loved ones, controlling money, or making them afraid of what will happen if they say no.

Worth Understanding

Individual actions might seem small when viewed separately. Together, they can create fear and dependence. Coercive control can happen without physical violence.

Complex PTSD (CPTSD)

Complex PTSD involves symptoms of PTSD along with lasting trouble managing emotions, feeling good about yourself, or feeling close to other people. It's often connected to repeated or long-lasting trauma, especially when escape was difficult.

Worth Understanding

Repeated trauma does not automatically result in Complex PTSD, and the condition is defined by symptoms rather than the type of trauma alone.

Consent

Freely and clearly agreeing to take part in a specific activity. Consent means someone understands what they're agreeing to and can make that choice without pressure, threats, or fear.

Worth Understanding

Consent can be taken back at any time. Silence, being in a relationship, or agreeing in the past doesn't automatically mean someone agrees now. Someone who is asleep, unconscious, or too impaired to make an informed decision cannot consent.

Discrimination

Treating someone unfairly or limiting their opportunities because of things like race, religion, disability, sex, age, or another part of their identity.

Worth Understanding

Discrimination can happen through individual actions, workplace practices, or policies that put certain groups at a disadvantage. Not every unfair situation meets the legal definition of discrimination. Legal protections depend on the circumstances and applicable laws.

Dissociation

Feeling disconnected from your thoughts, feelings, memories, body, or surroundings. It might feel like you're watching yourself from a distance or that the world around you isn't quite real.

Worth Understanding

Dissociation can happen during overwhelming stress or trauma, but it can also happen in other situations. Experiencing it doesn't automatically mean someone has a dissociative disorder.

Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID)

A mental health condition involving two or more distinct identity states along with repeated gaps in memory. It can affect someone's sense of who they are and how they experience everyday life.

Worth Understanding

DID isn't the same as schizophrenia or ordinary changes in mood. It also isn't someone deliberately pretending to be different people. Experiences can look different from one person to another.

Domestic Violence

Abuse or controlling behavior within an intimate or family relationship. It may involve physical harm, threats, sexual abuse, humiliation, isolation, or control over money and communication.

Worth Understanding

Domestic violence doesn't always leave physical injuries. It can happen to people of any gender or sexual orientation, including after a relationship ends. Different forms of abuse often happen together.

Dyslexia

A learning disability that can make reading words accurately or smoothly and spelling more difficult, even when someone has been taught appropriately and has opportunities to learn.

Worth Understanding

Dyslexia doesn't mean someone has low intelligence or isn't trying hard enough. It also doesn't mean everyone with dyslexia sees letters backward. Appropriate teaching and accommodations can help.

Eating Disorders

Serious mental health conditions involving difficulties with eating behaviors and related thoughts or feelings. Examples include anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, and avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder.

Worth Understanding

You can't tell whether someone has an eating disorder just by looking at their body. These conditions can affect people of any weight and may require medical, nutritional, and mental health care. Recovery is possible.

Emotional Abuse

Emotional abuse involves behaviors used to intimidate, humiliate, isolate, manipulate, frighten, or control another person. It may include repeated insults, threats, excessive criticism, monitoring, blaming, or attempts to undermine someone's confidence and independence.

Worth Understanding

Emotional abuse does not always involve yelling, physical violence, or obvious threats. It may develop gradually and become difficult to recognize. A pattern of control and intimidation is different from an occasional disagreement or ordinary relationship conflict.

Emotional Dysregulation

Emotional dysregulation refers to difficulty managing the intensity, expression, or duration of emotional responses. A person may experience emotions that feel overwhelming, react strongly to situations, or find it difficult to return to a calmer emotional state.

Worth Understanding

Emotional dysregulation is not a diagnosis by itself. It can occur in several mental health and neurodevelopmental conditions, as well as during periods of significant stress. Difficulty regulating emotions does not mean someone is intentionally overreacting.

Financial Abuse

Financial abuse involves using money, employment, debt, or access to financial resources to control, exploit, or limit another person's independence. It may include taking someone's earnings, restricting access to bank accounts, preventing them from working, forcing them into debt, or closely monitoring their spending.

Worth Understanding

Financial abuse can occur without physical violence and may be difficult to recognize when financial control is presented as care or protection. It can make leaving an abusive relationship especially difficult by limiting access to housing, transportation, and basic necessities.

Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a pattern of psychological manipulation in which someone repeatedly undermines another person's trust in their own memories, perceptions, feelings, or judgment. It may involve denying events, questioning someone's recollection, dismissing their experiences, or deliberately creating confusion.

Worth Understanding

Gaslighting is more specific than lying, disagreeing, or remembering an event differently. It typically involves repeated manipulation that causes someone to doubt their understanding of reality. Over time, this can increase emotional dependence and make controlling behavior more difficult to recognize.

Gender Dysphoria

Gender dysphoria refers to clinically significant distress or difficulties in daily functioning associated with a difference between a person's experienced gender and the sex they were assigned at birth. The distress may involve aspects of the body, social expectations, or how others perceive and treat the person.

Worth Understanding

Being transgender or having a gender identity that differs from one's assigned sex is not itself a mental health disorder. Not every transgender person experiences gender dysphoria. The clinical diagnosis concerns significant distress, not the validity of someone's gender identity.

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

Generalized Anxiety Disorder is a mental health condition involving excessive, persistent worry about multiple aspects of everyday life. The worry can be difficult to control and may be accompanied by restlessness, fatigue, muscle tension, irritability, difficulty concentrating, or sleep problems.

Worth Understanding

GAD is different from occasional worry or temporary stress. For adults, diagnosis generally involves excessive anxiety and worry occurring more days than not for at least six months, along with other symptoms and difficulties in everyday life.

Grief

Grief is a natural response to losing someone or something significant. It can involve sadness, anger, guilt, numbness, confusion, longing, and changes in sleep, appetite, or energy. Grief may follow a death, the end of a relationship, the loss of a home, or another meaningful change.

Worth Understanding

Grief does not follow a universal timetable or a required sequence of stages. People can experience relief, moments of happiness, or emotional numbness while grieving. Grief is not automatically a mental health disorder, although additional support may be helpful when it becomes difficult to cope.

Hypervigilance

Hypervigilance is a heightened state of alertness in which a person continually watches or listens for potential danger, even when no immediate threat is apparent. It may involve scanning surroundings, difficulty relaxing, increased sensitivity to noises, or being easily startled.

Worth Understanding

Hypervigilance can develop in response to trauma or prolonged stress, but it is not a standalone diagnosis. Feeling constantly on guard can be exhausting and may interfere with sleep, concentration, and everyday activities.

Major Depressive Disorder (Depression)

Major Depressive Disorder is a mental health condition involving persistent depressed mood or loss of interest or pleasure in activities. Symptoms can also include changes in sleep, appetite, energy, concentration, or feelings of worth. A depressive episode generally lasts at least two weeks and affects daily functioning.

Worth Understanding

Depression is not simply sadness or a bad day. It can involve physical symptoms, emotional numbness, irritability, or difficulty completing everyday tasks. Someone can experience depression even when they do not appear visibly sad.

Masking

Masking is the process of hiding, suppressing, or adapting natural behaviors, reactions, or communication styles to meet social expectations or avoid negative judgment. In discussions of neurodivergence, it can include consciously or unconsciously concealing autistic or ADHD traits.

Worth Understanding

Masking can help someone navigate certain situations, but maintaining it may require considerable effort and contribute to stress or exhaustion. A person's outward appearance or social behavior may not reflect how much support they need.

Neurodivergence

Neurodivergence is a broad, nonmedical term describing ways of thinking, learning, processing information, or experiencing the world that differ from what is considered neurologically typical. The term is commonly used in discussions of autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and other neurological or developmental differences.

Worth Understanding

Neurodivergence is not itself a medical diagnosis, and there is no single clinical test for being neurodivergent. People with the same diagnosis may have very different experiences, abilities, and support needs. Not everyone with a relevant condition uses this label.

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is a mental health condition involving recurring, unwanted thoughts, images, or urges called obsessions, and repetitive behaviors or mental actions called compulsions. These experiences can cause significant distress, take substantial time, or interfere with daily activities.

Worth Understanding

OCD is not simply being neat, organized, or particular about routines. Compulsions can be invisible, such as mentally reviewing events, counting, or repeating phrases. Unwanted intrusive thoughts do not necessarily reflect a person's wishes or intentions.

Personality Disorders

Personality disorders are a group of mental health conditions involving enduring patterns of thinking, feeling, behaving, and relating to others that differ substantially from cultural expectations and cause significant distress or difficulties in everyday functioning. Different personality disorders have different characteristics.

Worth Understanding

A personality disorder is not simply a personality trait someone dislikes, and a diagnosis does not define a person's character or worth. Symptoms and treatment needs differ across disorders and individuals.

Polyendocrine Metabolic Ovarian Syndrome (PMOS)

Polyendocrine Metabolic Ovarian Syndrome (PMOS) is a complex hormonal and metabolic condition previously known as Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS). It can affect menstrual cycles, ovulation, hormone levels, metabolism, skin, and reproductive health. Experiences vary and may include irregular periods, acne, increased facial or body hair growth, insulin resistance, and fertility difficulties.

Worth Understanding

Formerly known as Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)

The condition was renamed PMOS in May 2026 to better reflect its effects beyond the ovaries. Despite the former name, ovarian cysts are not required for diagnosis. The terminology change did not create a new disease or replace the existing international guideline's clinical recommendations. Both PMOS and PCOS may continue to appear in medical information during the transition.

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is a mental health condition that can develop after experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event. Symptoms may include unwanted memories, nightmares, avoidance of reminders, changes in mood or thinking, and feeling constantly alert to possible danger. These symptoms last longer than one month and can interfere with daily life.

Worth Understanding

Experiencing trauma does not automatically mean someone will develop PTSD. Symptoms may appear soon after an event or emerge later. PTSD can affect people of any age or background, and effective treatments are available.

Relapse

Relapse generally refers to a return to substance use or problematic patterns of use after a period of stopping, reducing, or successfully managing that behavior. In addiction recovery, it may involve the return of behaviors or symptoms that someone has been working to change.

Worth Understanding

A return to substance use does not erase earlier progress or automatically mean treatment has failed. Some professionals distinguish a brief return to use from a sustained relapse. Recovery experiences vary, and renewed use may indicate that additional support, treatment adjustments, or changes in a recovery plan are needed.

Schizophrenia

Schizophrenia is a mental health condition that can affect a person's thinking, perception, emotional expression, and ability to function in everyday life. Symptoms may include hallucinations, delusions, disorganized thinking, reduced motivation, and difficulties with concentration or memory.

Worth Understanding

Schizophrenia does not mean having multiple personalities. Symptoms and support needs vary between people. Most people with schizophrenia are not violent, and treatment can help people manage symptoms and pursue meaningful lives.

Sexual Assault

Sexual assault involves sexual contact or behavior that occurs without a person's freely given and informed consent. It can include unwanted sexual touching, coercion, forced sexual activity, or sexual acts involving someone who is unable to consent. It can occur between strangers, acquaintances, intimate partners, or spouses.

Worth Understanding

Sexual assault does not require physical force, visible injuries, or resistance from the person experiencing it. Freezing or being unable to respond does not mean someone has consented. Legal definitions vary by jurisdiction, and sexual assault is never the responsibility of the person who experiences it.

Stigma

Stigma refers to negative attitudes, beliefs, or stereotypes that cause people to be judged, excluded, or treated as less worthy because of a particular characteristic, identity, experience, or condition. It can affect people experiencing mental health conditions, addiction, disabilities, or other circumstances that are misunderstood or socially disapproved of.

Worth Understanding

Stigma can come from individuals, communities, institutions, or a person's own internalized beliefs. It may discourage someone from seeking support, sharing their experiences, or accessing treatment. Stigma and discrimination are related, but stigma concerns negative beliefs and social judgment, while discrimination involves unfair treatment.

Withdrawal

Withdrawal refers to physical or psychological symptoms that can occur when someone reduces or stops using a substance after their body has adapted to its presence. Symptoms vary depending on the substance and may include anxiety, nausea, sweating, sleep disturbances, shaking, irritability, or strong cravings.

Worth Understanding

Withdrawal does not automatically mean someone has an addiction. Physical dependence can also develop while taking certain medications as prescribed. Withdrawal from alcohol or medications such as benzodiazepines can sometimes cause seizures or other life threatening complications. Medical guidance is important before stopping these substances suddenly.

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